Saw my neighbour last night after helping mum with the praying outside my place. Have know this guy since we moved to Serangoon North when I am only primary 4! This Mr Nice still the same guy I knew, beside "age" is written on his face! As usual, he loves to talk and very polite to elderly, esp to my mum. It was already past midnight & he still talking non stop .. And both of us are standing right outside my place.. Weird isn't it!
There's he goes, telling me his marriage was on the rock right now. He didn't even tell his parents/siblings abt it cos he don't want them to worry! He has caught his wife twice with another man etc.. There's once he saw love bite on his wife's neck... They have a big quarrel and his wife's mum came to their place, cries so badly to ask him forgive her daughter and salvage their marriage. Soft hearted Mr Nice forgave her, but that leave a scar on their marriage & till now they are not in talking terms etc.. Some more his wife just changed to a new job as claim officer with higher salary of S$2300, which required alot of overtime. Worst I can said, that lesser their communication & personal time to be together! As for Mr Nice, he has been working in this car dealer shop for more than 10 years & he's only drawing S$1900 gross/ mth! When I heard that, I was like "warao", after CPF was so little! They still need to pay for their 4 room hdb flat monthly + expenses etc.. How can they survive? Mr Nice told me they hardly go out during weekends, spend sparingly & maybe will just go for a nice good food once a month! In fact, this makes me ponder about Hoo & my income. We are much better than them yet our problem mainly is $$ !
Maybe their life style too bored and her wife starts to know more guys & eventually having affairs! Really don't understand humans.. Some women are faithful, yet their men did those suck thing to them. And this case, man being loyal, but woman messed around outside! WTF ??? Why can't two persons who's in love, promised to take care of each other & at last exchanged vows .. stay together throughout their whole life?? Does extra-marital affair really bring u happiness forever? Is it lust or love? As what I've seen, the most last for a year or 2. Then it will back to square one again as both had knew each other faults, no more juicy topics to talk about & excitement anymore!
Well, my advise for all out there, pls think more than twice before u step into those shit ! Maybe there's true love in 2 out of 10 cases! But for those 8, either u got nothing end of the day or leave a deep scar in your marriage! Forgive yet can't forget..
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