Cold War

Sometime I really don't seem to understand my mum at all!  I don't deny she's a 24 hours mum, she runs the household & take care of daily needs, even do more than maid ! Wakes early for ZJ's schooling & sleep very late at night! She has been doing her duties as a housewife all these years.

But come to communication with children. She's a failure! Being a mum, u should understand your childrens' thoughts & what they really need you to do now. Must be rationality, should knows when, how & what to talk! By not doing that, still rub salts onto people's wound!! When I went to bed last night, she brought out Hoo & my case out of sudden, saying I shouldn't go to his place so often, be it with him or other boyfriend in future! Men just take advantages on women & dump them after tired of u! Thinking I won't hear her! That's really pissed me off & I shouted at her! Generation now, this type of things are bloody common ok! I told her what about our 18 & 19 years old nieces?? They are either staying in their boyfriend's place or boyfriend comes to stay in their place! Mind u lor, they are only this age & I alr double their age lor! Really angry @#*&%@!! Of cos I know when things come to an end, women are the one normally lose out, and If I was to  know Hoo & I will come to this stage, I will never start this relationship at all, right? Things are unpredictable in life lor!

I've always remind myself if next time I have my own kid, I'll not follow her footsteps! Too bad, I will never have a chance this life! But I will still do it with my nephew ZJ, which I have done it with him so far.

This morning, we never talk to each other & she don't even want to see my face by sitting outside our house's staircase thruout till I left the house! Just like small kid, only show face & angry with me yet dare not do that to my brother & sis-in-law when scolded by them! Cos both of them more fierce! My advise is don't speak if U don't know what to talk & no one will mind U mute ya!