ZJ's canned marks

Mum called me yesterday afternoon saying my nephew-ZJ got badly beaten by his mum for asking grandma (my mum) to buy so much toys & playing with it whole day! She's just finding excuses to whack him when she's getting frustrated and yet no one to vent anger on! ZJ always the poor victim who got it. Not once but many times he was whacked by cloth hanger. And this time using fish net! The poor boy keep begging his mum to give him another chance (求求你在给我一次机会) but in vain!

Canned mark on his hand

Canned marks on his leg

Who's to blame? As a parent, u should hold more responsiblilties to your child than others! U just busy running your business, making money & leave your kid with grandma for the whole Dec school holiday! What do u expect? Grandma teaches grandson's studies? If u really have no times for your kid, be willing to pay & enrol him to tuition classes or courses that he can learns and study there without playing with toys! U earn lots $$ yet so stingy to take out for your own kid!

ZJ is at the age of knowing what happen in the surroundings.. By treating him this way, I hope my nephew, your son will not bear grudges in future. He was already so much slower than others kids who's around his age! Those kids are into Ipod, Ipad or whatever games & he's still playing with toys! He's very timid  too. I think I know why, cos his mum keep shouting at him out of sudden and he's always kept at home without exploring the world outside. That's make him dare not try new things. Brought him to fishing on Xmas day, he don't even dare to step into water at first cos he's afraid of those "small fishes" to bite him! Gosh!!

No one does a better job than the parent to shower him with love, care & concern. No use for you to "sayang" him after beating him up badly! Crazy woman!